Okay - I owe a big apology to people who I upset or offended. I'm not sure what made me say what I did unless it was just anger and pure frustration. I never ever meant to say that "SEE was crap". I do not feel that way at all. I just know SEE is not for me. Also, I never realized that there were differing views on the "full toolbox" approach for children. I only learned about it here on AD.
Once again, I apologize to any that I upset and offended.
Taking life one day at a time.