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Unread 10-31-2011, 06:09 PM   #19 (permalink)
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Had she been attempting to maintain a home,hang onto possessions (and accumulate more), and all of the other things that go with most folks' daily lives, she probably would have not been able to work and continue to assist others for as long as she did. We have been brainwashed to believe that we "have" to own the home with the white picket fence and manicured lawn with all the latest of whatever is on the market. Most of it is not really for our comfort, but to keep up with the Jones. This woman knew what was important to her, and she did it. Kudos. I wish everyone knew themselves as well as she obviously did, and lived true to themselves the way she does.
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Many of the larger cities have what they call "business suites" for people who come into the area on a regular basis and need more than just a night or two in a motel. Like people who live a couple of weeks in one city, and have a home elsewhere. They are set up like efficiency condos and function like where this woman was living. They can be rented for a week, a month, 6 months...whatever is needed. One price gets you lodging and amenities. I personally think that it is something that would go over well for many. People have finally started providing things like this for seniors in their senior citiizen complexes. My mom lived in a great place like that with one monthly fee that covered everything except cable and phone. Rental fees based on income. Well maintained, safe, and comfortable. Why couldn't we provide the same for people that aren't seniors but travel frequently?
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Me, as well. I find the need to keep simplifying my life so I can concentrate on other things. I don't think I will ever develop a problem with hoarding, lol.

But I do have to admit that there was a time in my life when I fell into the same trap so many do...house and yard had to be impeccable and I "needed" all the most updated things. Why? To be honest, so my neighbors would not think I was less than. Gotta keep up those appearances, you know. It is amazing how your priorities change throughout life.
who trapped you? who brainwashed you? My family and I never felt this kind of mysterious influence to live in a home with white picket fence.
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