I too had my DD at 19 - all due to stupid drunken sex with what is now my ex-husband.
I wouldn't trade her for the world, but I certainly wish I would have waited until I was closer to 30 and firmly established financially and emotionally. I've vowed to myself - no more children! One is enough for me!
Oh, you will. It is all a dream and since matter cannot be created nor destroyed, the dreams must be real in all their myriad forms. -Beowulf
This Delicate Thing God Has Made
The world is measured in peasants; smaller than a unicorn but, bigger than a tidbit!