Ok Update... and the results are in...
YOU ARE NOT THE FATHER!

Sorry after the day I've had I had to make a light of the situation.
Well, the neurologist doesn't know why I'm having hearing loss on my left. so I wait to see a ENT, the damages tissues I have in my brain could be from a infection (kindergarten, had a fever of 104.4 for a week straight, then gradually lost complete hearing in my right ear) when I was a kid or it could be recent, no clue. MS isnt likely but not ruled out. Now I'm being tested for lupus and will know by the 28th. Freakin 15 viles of my blood later...
Oh so irritated, anyone wanna have a margarita with me? lol