Originally Posted by lanapoo
This is about their marriage, not your friendship. I don't care who you talk to every day, but this is their marriage and you're contributing to their problems.
So don't be selfish and think that she's the problem. I don't see you as a bad person, you just need to see the other POV on this.
I agree, ember, no one is calling you a bad person. Many of the people who are contributing have already been through hellacious situations where it has been a "problem".
It isn't worth it.