Originally Posted by inspirabull

I did not mean to sound like it is an absolute that it passes on as being an abuser. It has an effect though. And that is where it can be dealt with.
In me it a determination to not be a passer on of it. It took a lot of my youth away as the anger ran my life as well as the shattered confidence and fear of people. Some things take longer than others to heal from. For me it was only forty years.