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Originally Posted by Banjo
Loyalty, look it up in the dictionary.
I'm not talking about the couple being deceptive to each other. It's about being deceptive to their children, family, friends, co-workers and the society. People who think it doesn't affect anyone but the couple is gravely mistaken. A web of lies can do much more damages than one can possibly imagine.
Again, people do not understand the dangers of deception. Lying is not acceptable, it never was, it isn't today and never will be. People do not benefit from lying. They may at first, but it'll backfire right into their faces later on.
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I am not sure where this deception is coming from? Open marriages (at least to me) simply means sex with other people. Parents do not talk about sex with their children. Sometimes they don't even talk about sex with their family. I view open marriages as some sort of an "alternative" sexual behavior. It's the same thing to me as having threesomes, dressing up like a a cheerleader, and so on.
Now if you're talking about people having RELATIONSHIPS with other people while being married.. well then.. that's different. That would seem a little strange to me and very confusing for the kids.....