Sorry, I disagree with you... if what you said is true, then why do I still have a deal with same problems? I am still accused by people for same reasons.
Also, I am STILL accused as a homophobe/homophobia. That is why I got a ban from another forum and I was attacked on DeviantART, which I left DA. =/
Oh well.
EDIT: I'm not sure how I can explain it better. Honestly, I don't think Reba is being judgemental. I'm sure she voiced her opinion as I do. But you think she is being pre-judged, I guess I might be one too.
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Originally Posted by shel90
U can disagree but to use words/comments like;
"decay on society"
"If they do that, their marriage has a problem" It is not for others to tell others that their marriage has a problem. It is for the couple themselves to decide that for themselves.
Saying that one is engaging in sinful behaviros. Sinful by whose standards? Maybe the couple doesnt see it that way so it is pointless to preach to them. Everyone has different beliefs. Maybe what one considers a sin isnt a sin to others. So what?
"U have trust issues" That's between the couple to decide not for others outside of the relationship to decide..
To me those kinds of comments and others are considered judgemental.
If one says, "I dont agree with that lifestyle and I wouldnt do it myself." Then that's not judgemental.
See the difference?
It is the same issue with gay marriages. People vote to ban them...why? Because it doesnt adhere to their idea of marriage. What about gay people's idea of marriage?
If u are just disagreeing but dont criticize others for not following what your idea of something is, then no, u are not judgemental.
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