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Old 06-30-2009, 12:59 PM   #32 (permalink)
shel90
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Originally Posted by cdaigle430 View Post
Abusing someone because you were abused is stupid, and men who abuse their wives, girlfriends are a$$holes. Theres no other way to look at it. The real question is why do women who are being abused stay with the a$$hole?
Why do women stay...several reasons

Fear for their and their children's lives

No money

No outside support system

Brainwashed into accepting this behavior

Feelings that they deserve it


It is not simple as just getting up and leaving. I wish it was but in reality, it is far far too complex.

It is a shame. These women deserve support instead of criticism for not leaving their abuser. When they have that, the chances of them leaving increase.
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