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Old 06-30-2009, 07:06 AM   #42 (permalink)
shel90
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Originally Posted by Banjo View Post
I'm aware of that, but it's still a violation of the vows. A vow is a solemn promise. Even if the couple get married knowing they'll share each other with multiple partners, it's still deceptive.

Lying is something that is frowned upon by the society, it's even illegal to lie in some situations and you can get sent to jail for it.

I don't think people really realize how dangerous the concept of deception is.
Deceptive to who? The couple decides to do thos to each other not to society. I don't see how it is considered harmful to society if the couple decides to have an alternative lifestyle. If society doesn't believe in it, then don't do it. Everyone is different. I guess in my view, whatever goes on in other people's bedroom is not my business.
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