Quote:
Originally Posted by DeafBorg
I talked to him about what was going on and what was my deal. We sat on the porch for a few hours in tears.
He also told me what he was seeing and how he felt as well too. So we both asked eachother the same question how do you make marriage work. It needs a blance and both on the same page.
I was relieved when I finally spoke to him and he was too. So we can now be on the same page and work around it.
|
A relationship does not always have to be about the two people liking and doing the same things all the time.
The Balances that needs to be there is "acceptance" to one another.
Both need to accept they way the other is and love the other for being so.
I have learned something a few years back.. Something that my mother told me.
Best way to keep a relationship maintained is to accept the other for whom they are. Not to set them up to your own standards. Because once you become selfish and expect the other half to act and behave a certain way. It will fall apart. That is where the control issue comes in. and it will create problems.