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Originally Posted by DeafBorg
I want to be happy and free to do what I want to do. When I was out with my mom I was happy and felt free.
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What's stopping you?
It seems to me that he's using you as a crutch to make him feel better. From your post, it sounds like he's not doing anything to improve his situation and is expecting you to solve all of his problems. It is not possible and very unfair to you. That's a very needy person right there and I am sorry to say this, but he's being a big baby. He's an adult now. I don't know him at all but think that he is very capable of managing himself, but doesn't want to cause you're the one doing everything for him. I feel bad that he's had a very bad life but at the same time, he cannot allow it to bring him down, including you.
Life is what you make of it and you only have once chance at it. And time flies by before you know it. I'm sad that it seems like he's given up and lost the motivation at some point. I hope that he finds it back.
In the end, it is your choice and I pray for the best.