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Old 06-19-2009, 05:13 PM   #14 (permalink)
shel90
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Originally Posted by KarissaMann05 View Post
Are you expecting me that I would change my mind on traditional marriage if it would happen to me? Are you expecting I would against it if it happen to me. I think not... I was once cheated by former boyfriend, and it didn't affect my view on it at all...
Never said that. Where did I say that about u? I was talking about my views. Pls do not read more into my words.

My views changed because I used to think by having a traditional marriage, I was protected from all these issues u mentioned (diseases, someone else getting pregnant with my hubby's baby and all that) until my ex hubby cheated on me. Now, I know that I am just as vulnerable as anyone despite being married.

Doesnt mean I am going for an open marriage myself...it means that marriage doesnt guarantee protection from all these issues.
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