this is hopeless. Liebling, are you a sociologist? Anthropologist? Sound like you're lecturing us on what's American culture and what's not. Why are you disagreeing with us just because of what you experienced? 23 years in American military base IS NOT THE SAME AS
23 years of living in USA. Your POV and Experience are as TOURIST
, not RESIDENT.
OK? OK? OK?
this is very frustrating. I give up. I'll just nod and listen and believe everything you say. You sound like an expert.