ive been in LD relationships too and yes i agree with all of u on how HARD it is -- but i think it all depends on WHO ur partner is and if that person is the kind that u can trust not to be cheating or whatever and i also think another thing that would help is the partner's maturity in approaching LD relationship as there are ppl out there who simply cant handle it and cheat on their primary relationship with other people and lack of communication
i personally dont have a problem with LD relationships if the relationship continues to be on stable grounds and above all be honest with eachother and talk abt things openly
ive been in situations where a partner thinks i was cheating when i hadnt and it goes out in cyberspace saying i am the "bad" one cuz i cheated blahhsie
i notice that happens when the partner HAS cheated and dont want to admit to it so blame the partner who has NOT cheated for cheating -- how mature is that qq
that can definately kill off the LD relationship in NO time flat cuz theres no trust there nor is there communication to express their feelings -- those who just clam up and refuse to talk are the hardest ppl to communicate with *sigh* and on top of that i have also noticed that other ppl who apparently gets jealous of the couple would go around saying shit and in the end cause the break up cuz 1 partner believes the rumors and refuses to talk abt the rumor to the partner directly preferring to
to rumors than to get them all validated