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Old 07-09-2008, 06:27 PM   #20 (permalink)
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Ok Cheri..no problem.

Just I am a little senstive about the subject of hearing children's delayed spoken language due to the parents' deafness. In the past year, I have had people (not on AD) tell me that my son's spoken language is delayed cuz I am deaf and that I shud not be signing to him and shud be using my voice only. They don't even bother to ask if I use only ASL with him or not. Whatever happened to asking first before making assumptions. LOL.
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Oh, I understand. I'm sorry to hear that, I wasn't aware that it had happened to you and I've had some deaf people telling me I should have teach my sons sign language, and how I'm not even accepting my deafness when it's really isn't about me, it's about my sons who happen to be hearing.
We just can't win! If we go one way, they blame us. If we go other way, we get blamed also. Go figure!
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