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Whatever @ DD. Let drop the subject. Let everyone talk about their feeling with situation.
Jilio and OceanBreeze, I have a question for you. You might know a lot about Borderline Personality Disorder. Let me telling you about the storying.
The hoh woman is 23 half years old's friend of mine for long times since she was little. She is a twin sister and raised with adopt parent. Because her real dad was abused on her mom during pregnancy. Her dad was heavy on Heroin, Cocaine and alcohol addictive. She was born with birth defect in her Small intestine. She was almost be mental retard but lucky. She is smart at school.
She had been depress in her whole life. She started to say suicide when she was 15. She have an eating disorder since she was teenager. She is very picky with food. After she got High School Diploma. She started to smoking cigarette at age 19 and admit to drink alcohol. She was with her ex boyfriend. They always broke up and back together off on off on off on off on off on off.
I never figure it out about her problem. I noticed she had an attitude problem. She insulted me for no reason. I walked away from her. She was being rude to everyone for no reason. She always lying too much. I noticed that every deaf people can't stand around her. They really dislike her very much because of her personality problem.
When I stayed away from deaf people since I met my wonder man. I don't see the woman for long time. Until last 2 years ago. She talked to me and admit that she is alcohol abuse. She went to hospital for ER because she has a Crohn's Disease. She suppose not to drink alcohol. She really hate about herself. After she got out of hospital. She stayed at friend's house to take care of her medicine for crohn's disease. She admited that she has BPD. I was alike what is that?? I never hear of it before. She was affair to friend's husband and have a sex.
Last 1 years ago in January 2007. She made her own post bulletin at myspace and to tell everyone. She wanted to kill herself. My other friend called police on her. They came to her apartment. They tried to knock on the door. She didn't open the door. The polices arrived to her. My friends are trying to help her. But She didn't listen to them. She act like a stupid to them. They gave it up help her anymore. She went to Behavorial Hospital. Her psychologist gave her a Zoloft.
When she got home and wanted to chat with me on vp. She told me all deaf people hate her. I asked her why?? She always lying to me all the times. She didn't explain to me at all. My other 2 friends are mad at me for being friend with her. I was alike what is the hell going on? They warned me about her. They didn't want to explain to me why. They wanted to let me learn from her. I was alike okay. I tried to help her go to counseling. She skipped the counseling and not take a medicines at all.
She took a Wellburtin in April's Fool Day. She cutted her wrist with a blade in front of her boyfriend. He took her to go ER. He isn't allow her to go back to home alone because she can be kill herself at her apt. He is so manipulated to her life. He isn't allow her go hang out with other men because of sex. She have a cloud relationships. She always lied to him all the times.
Me and my husband came to her apt to moved out and live with her boyfriend at mobile. She always got me into stress out because too much drama. I wasn't interesting into drama. My husband wasn't happy with me to hang out with her. Because she is extreme dangerous for me. I did ride with her. She always get a speeding ticket. She went on 110 mph at highway. I told her to slow down please. She didn't listen to me. My mom didn't want me to ride with her anymore.
She asked me a stupid question. "When you are done with wedding. What you will do with bride gown?? Why not you put in your gown fire to burn it". I was alike huh? She is crazy! Bride gown is so expensive! I refuse to do burn. My mom and my husband got mad at her for tell me to do.
She took a Bendyal about 48 tablets in her mouth. She passed out when her boyfriend was at work. He got home and saw her laying on the floor under the computer. He woke her up to see what is going on. She act like a retard and can't talk. She need go to go bathroom. He got her to bathroom. She stayed there for 1 hour. She act like a retard. He took her to ER. Her doctor told him that she need go to mental ward hospital. Her boyfriend said no. He will take care of her. Next day, She wore a sweatshirt during hot outside. She didn't eat anything. She was sleeping at church. My mom looked at her. She told to her boyfriend that she has an eating disorder. Her boyfriend is a denial about his gf has eating disorder. He asked us to go out of eat. We wanted to go Flat Top Grill for lunch because of health. Her boyfriend stopped at gas station and tell my husband to change the plan because she didn't want to go Flat Top Grill. She want to go Chinese Buffet. We got mad at her! He said she is so manipulated. She ate too much crab rangoons and sweet biscuits that all. She didn't eat a vegetable or meat. She act like weird. She is very skinny! My husband and I agree not hang out with her anymore. We are sick of her being picky with food.
I decide to avoid from her for good. Her boyfriend tried to make a deal with her BPD. I told him. I can't handle with her anymore. I just tired of it. She already hurt my feel. She hurt everyone's feeling. They do nothing with her. My husband said don't respond to her boyfriend's email. I blocked on them for good. I need to move on my life and be happy.
I found it out she was pregnancy by her boyfriend. They got married in last minute and give a baby born next 2 month. It's too rushed for them. It's not my problem.
Do you think BPD always lying too much?? I am wonder.
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