I sorta know how you feel.
I've gone through communication problems with my ex. If anyone asked me to leave a message for her, I always did. If anyone asked her to leave a message for me, she rarely did. If someone was concerned about something I did, they would tell her... but she wouldn't tell me. It was basically anything from herself and no one else.
After we broke up, I started hearing a lot of things from others. "Why didn't you do this?" "Huh? What you talking about? I don't know anything about it." "I told her since she was your girlfriend." "Oh, she never told me anything about it."
I almost lost a few friends because of this.
